When you get into an argument with your spouse, you may think it takes courage to yell back, but in reality, you are displaying a lack of courage. They are pushing your buttons, gaining control over you as you lose your cool. It takes far more courage not to engage. Not in a manipulative way, but by being confident in yourself while being filled with real courage to act bravely or maturely.
@Bill Abbate Above lines makes sense in all other situations also. I understood the concept. It can be applied dealing with other kinds of people. Remarkable!๐๐
When you get into an argument with your spouse, you may think it takes courage to yell back, but in reality, you are displaying a lack of courage. They are pushing your buttons, gaining control over you as you lose your cool. It takes far more courage not to engage. Not in a manipulative way, but by being confident in yourself while being filled with real courage to act bravely or maturely.
@Bill Abbate Above lines makes sense in all other situations also. I understood the concept. It can be applied dealing with other kinds of people. Remarkable!๐๐